We need to talk about harassment in Forró

Forró, this dance that unites us in joy and celebration of Brazilian culture, is much more than just a "two steps to the left, two steps to the right". It's a meeting place, a human connection, and, for many, the beginning of great love stories. How many couples met on the dance floor, swayed by the contagious rhythm of baião, xote, and xaxado? Forró has this magical power to bring people together.

However, for this magic to continue to exist, it is essential that respect is the foundation of everything. We need to talk about harassment in forró, a delicate but crucial topic to ensure that everyone feels safe and welcome in this special environment.

What is harassment in Forró (and outside of it)?

Harassment is any unwanted behavior of a sexual, verbal, or physical nature that embarrasses, intimidates, or humiliates another person. In the context of forró, this can manifest in various ways:

• Non-consensual touching: Squeezing, forced kisses, hands in inappropriate places without permission.
• Offensive comments: Invasive pick-up lines, sexist jokes, comments about the other person's body.
• Excessive insistence: Not accepting "no" for an answer, repeatedly bothering the person to dance or for something more.
• Stalking: Following the person inside or outside the dance, sending unwanted messages.

It is important to remember that harassment is not limited to physical contact. Comments and attitudes that create a hostile environment are also forms of harassment. And the responsibility to avoid harassment always lies with the person who practices it, and never with the victim.

The intention of the dance is not (primarily) that

Yes, forró can be a place where relationships begin. But the main intention of the dance is fun, connection through music and movement, the celebration of northeastern culture. It is essential that everyone understands this and respects each other's limits.

• Communicate: Before starting the dance, ask if the person feels comfortable with the style of hold. Be attentive to non-verbal cues.
• Respect "no": If someone refuses an invitation to dance, do not insist. Accept the answer naturally.
• Be kind: Treat everyone with respect and politeness, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, or any other characteristic.
• Report: If you witness or experience harassment, do not remain silent. Contact the event organizers or the competent authorities.

Building a safer and more welcoming forró

Forró is a cultural heritage that must be preserved and celebrated. To do this, we need to build an environment where everyone feels safe, respected, and comfortable dancing and having fun. Awareness and education are the keys to transforming forró into an even more magical and inclusive space. And remember, respect is the basis of all relationships, inside and outside the dance hall.

Let's build together a more conscious, joyful, and respectful forró for everyone!

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